James “Jay” Vick

James “Jay” Vick

James “Jay” Robert Vick, 39, of Nags Head, NC died on Monday, January 7, 2013 at his residence.  Mr. Vick was born in St. Charles, MO and was a chef.  He was the son of James Frederick and Nancy Jacobsen Vick of Chesapeake, VA and the husband of Cotton Vick of the residence.

Besides his wife and parents, Mr. Vick is survived by his grandmother, Lorraine Jacobsen of Chesapeake, VA; a sister, Amy Hollowood and husband, Dave of Fairfax, VA;  a niece and nephew, Errin and Sean Hollowood of Fairfax, VA; an uncle, Chris Jacobsen of Chesapeake, VA; and an aunt, Pam Shepherd and husband, Jeff and their son, Zachary of Texas.

A memorial service will be held at St. Andrews by the Sea Episcopal Church Chapel on Thursday, January 10, 2013 at 11:00 am with the Rev. Phil Glick officiating.

Twiford Funeral Home, Manteo, NC is assisting the family with arrangements.

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  1. Scott Brewer on January 8th, 2013 3:36 pm

    Jay Vick was a Legend! He would give you the shirt off of his back if you needed it as well. My condolences to his family. Rest in Peace Brother

  2. stacy r canada on January 8th, 2013 5:20 pm

    miss you buddy!!!thoughts to the vick family and all his friends!!!he is def loved and missed by many…youre at peace now!!!

  3. Ali on January 8th, 2013 5:44 pm

    So sorry for your loss, thinking of you.

  4. Todd & Sue Cummings on January 8th, 2013 7:15 pm

    We are so going to miss his bright smile & “Hey, come on over, we’re having a “”Vick Pit”” fire & oysters” across the fence. Will miss the ping pong games in the garage! What a wonderful neighbor to have had and will be terribly missed!! Cotton, Nancy & James, our thoughts & prayers are with you all!

  5. Ashley Reich on January 8th, 2013 10:28 pm

    Jay brought so many happy moments in our life and left us with a treasure of memories. I will never be able to forget him. I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss.

  6. Rex Dea Etheridge on January 9th, 2013 5:25 am

    Dear Cotton and Family;

    I am so sorry. Jay was always so kind to me! My condolences to you, your family, and his family.

    Oldest “buser on the beach”, Rex

  7. Jason and Jodie Futch on January 9th, 2013 8:46 am

    Jay leaving has happened far too soon. I know your family will experience incomprehensible grief and sadness. We are so very sorry for your loss. Words may not help,but we will lift you up with prayer. He used to come in to spoil his dog after going to the beach for a walk. We’ve also had numerous delicious meals prepared with love and a smile from Jay. Just want you to always remember, he touched a lot of people and we will miss him.

  8. Mandy Earnest on January 9th, 2013 9:59 am

    So many great memories from back in the hood that I will cherish forever- thanks for the laughs and your evergiving friendship. May you find peace and may your family and Cotton have the strength to get through this tragic loss. Give Casey lots of smooches from me…….love you always….

  9. Michael Leonard on January 9th, 2013 1:10 pm

    You will be missed by many and never forgotten. I know you are in a better place. My prayers and condolences go out to your family.

  10. Chris Jacobsen on January 9th, 2013 1:10 pm

    Thanks for all of the thoughful comments. I haven’t had the opportunity of meeting alot of you guys, but the memories are all we have of Jay now. I thank Rex, and Melissa (please excuse me if I have gotton your name incorrectly Melissa)for stopping by last nite by Jim and Nancy’s. Great friends. If anyone does have any experiences with Jay that you would like to share, as painful as it is, I would like to hear from anyone who has a story to tell. I don’t know if Jim and Nancy have looked at this form, as it is painful right now, but it just helps somehow that everyone’s comments are good, and upbeat. However, feel free to email me on my personal email as I feel like I have missed alot from not keeping closer to Jay than I have.

    Live well, be kind & wise, and remember we all are here for just a little period of time.

  11. Mandy Earnest on January 9th, 2013 3:54 pm

    Chris I used to date his roomate Bill and have many fun stories I would love to share but it doesn’t have your email up there………

  12. Leah Ann Culpepper on January 9th, 2013 4:28 pm

    I was so sorry to hear that Jay had left this world way too young. He has left all that grew up with him many happy, funny, loving memories. I remember his many trips to Radford University to visit with friends and will never forget his smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

  13. Jennifer Cook Cunningham on January 9th, 2013 5:14 pm

    You will be missed greatly my dear old friend! My prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

  14. Melissa and Ray Mcdaniel on January 9th, 2013 6:01 pm

    Jay was a big part of my life growing up in Chesapeake. We had years of memories and good times to cherish. It is a blessing to have known and loved someone who was so kind and enjoyed life. He was a great friend and brother to me and I hope he knows how positively he affected people with his kindness and that Vick smile. Our deepest sympathies to his family and our hope that our love and prayers provide you with comfort during this most difficult time.

  15. Gene Beale on January 9th, 2013 8:15 pm

    I met Jay my senior year at high school and he became my best friend instantly. All the friends I have had since then can’t compare to Jay. He was one of a kind. A kind and generous person that would give anything to anyone. I am very sorry for your loss, Mr. and Mrs. Vick. Take care ol’ friend. I’m really going to miss you.

  16. cindy jacobsen bierman on January 9th, 2013 8:27 pm

    As we prepare to celebrate Jay’s life tomorrow, I want to thank everyone who has shared sweet memories of my favorite nephew. Jay is such a precious soul – words fail me as I try to remain upbeat when my heart is broken. Chris, do not feel quilt – Jay knew you loved him – he knew we all loved him. He would not want us filled with regrets and sadness. I echo Chris’s words and share something that Jay told me last summer & that is that family is most important. Tell your family you love them and keep them close. Let that be one of the many legacies this wonderful man leaves for all of us.Peace

  17. Amy Hall Ferebee on January 9th, 2013 10:52 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. He was a wonderful person.

  18. Carol Hennessey on January 9th, 2013 11:16 pm

    We are so so sad to lose such a talented, friendly, kind person. Jay left this Earth way too soon. We will miss him terribly but I will smile when I think of him and what he gave us…….

  19. Danny Graves on January 10th, 2013 9:15 am

    Words alone cannot express our loss at this time.Jay was such a wonderful and giving person,not to mention his beaming smile.Mr.James and Mrs Nancy and Cotton my prayers with you in these times and tribulations and may God bless you and watch over you.I remember the times we shared together just about every morning.I will never forget you.Life is only temporary,so love unconditionally.Rest in peace Jay Vick.

  20. Charlotte Shepard on January 10th, 2013 9:52 am

    My heart and prayers are with you at this devastating time. Our love will surround you in the days to come – we are here for you – lean on us!

  21. B.J. Hujdich Jr. on January 10th, 2013 10:42 am

    Words can not express my grief for your family. I’m there for you when ever you need me Jim & Nancy. Peace be with you.

  22. Susan Sykes on January 10th, 2013 11:19 am

    For Cotton and Jay’s family, I am so saddened and so sorry for your loss. I knew Jay when I lived on the OBX. He was a talented, sweet, smart, and big-hearted man. He always had a smile for me. I pray that you will have the strength, peace, and comfort that only God can give.

  23. Cliff Ferguson on January 12th, 2013 12:48 am

    Hearing of Jay’s passing saddened me. It seems like yesterday that all of us along Dock Landing rode in the schoolbus together.Life comes at us so fast and leaves us even faster. Embrace those that you love and don’t take one day for granted. My condolences go out to his loved ones.

  24. Chris Jacobsen (uncle) on January 14th, 2013 10:11 am

    I do not kow how long this link will be able to stay open, but my email is “Chris.Jacobsen@dom.com”. I cannot recall if I added my email, but If anyone would like to add any comments in the future after this open form concludes, here is my email. I do not have Jim’s and Nancy’s, or Cotton’s email off hand, but I will certainly forward your thoughts if you wish. Thanks for all your comments, I know everyone in the family appreciates the heart felt comments, and will comfort them in the days to come.

  25. Christina Worthington on February 12th, 2013 1:27 pm

    I meet Jay back in the good old days of high school. Never will forget the good memories! Although he left this world way too soon- I pray Jay is at peace surfing the waves of heaven! My sincerest condolences to all family! May your sadness be consoled by the mercy of God. As a mother now of two sons, to Mr. & Mrs. Vick my heart is heavy for you and hope for comfort and healing.
    Love and peace Jay- hope you and Mike are laughing about the crazy times and your spirit will remind us all LOVE is the greatest gift of all!

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