Brenda Kay Alters Strain, age 75, of Hertford, NC died on Tuesday, January 18, 2022 at her home. Born in Westchester, PA on December 5, 1946 she was the daughter of the late Otis Deavers and Pauline Deavers. Brenda was a registered nurse and worked at Chowan County Hospital.
She is survived by two daughters, Michelle Nichols (Duane) of Roper, NC and Dawn Bouch of Hertford, NC; a son, George Westinghouse Strain, III (Margaret) of Hertford, NC; two sisters, Debbie McNelly and Ruth Gleason; five grandchildren, Major Casey Bouch (Brandy), Ryan Bouch (Emily), R. Brian Owens (Brittany) , Samantha Chappell (Brian) and Jessica Dillon (Mike) and eleven great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by a brother, Henry Alters.
No service is planned at this time. Twiford Funeral Home, 405 East Church Street, Elizabeth City, NC 27909 is serving the Strain family. Memorial donations may be made in Brenda’s name to SPCA of Northeastern NC, 102 Enterprise Drive, Elizabeth City, NC 27909. Online memorial condolences may be sent to the family at www.TwifordFH.com. To plant a tree in memory of Mrs. Strain, please visit www.TwifordFH.com/send-flowers.
Contact Information:
Twiford Funeral Home (Elizabeth City)
405 East Church Street,
Fax: 252-335-4329
Email: J.J.Twiford@TwifordFH.com
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Rachel
To Brenda’s family,
My heart goes out to your family during this time of sorrow, may God place His arms of comfort and peace around each of you. I really enjoyed working with Brenda when she was at Chowan. I remember that she was very strong and determined when she was going through cancer treatment. God bless you all
George Strain
Mom,
I love you! you were my world and all I can say is you went out the way you lived your life,,,On your own terms! I miss you already!
Ann Wilmar
I’m sorry to hear about Brenda. I worked with her at Chowan. I loved to hear about her bunnies and other pets. She loved animals. I really enjoyed working with her. She will be missed, but heaven gained another angel
Condolences to her family and friends.
Jeanne Henderson
George and Margaret, Tony and I are so very sorry for the loss of your Mom. Our heart goes out to you and your family. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
Kimber Krochmal
George, Margaret, and the rest of the family, I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts.
David Perry
Michelle, Dawn and George, I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. It was always a pleasure seeing her at the store back in the day. I know my parents thought a lot of her also. You will be in our thoughts and prayers
Sharon Hobbs
I am so sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing. I have fond memories of working with her. I lost touch after she retired. Hope that your wonderful memories of her will bring some comfort during this difficult time.
Margaret H. Strain
I am so heartbroken over the loss of you. I miss you so much already, Mom. I hope you knew just how much you meant to me. I couldn’t have asked for a better mother-in-law. You treated me as your own daughter, not just your son’s wife. I will always be thankful for the hard times you helped me to get through. My heart aches that I will never get to hear you call me “your Maggie” ever again. I thought you’d be with us a lot longer, but I know you aren’t suffering now. I love you Mom and I will always miss you.
Tammy
I am just learning of Brenda’s passing. I worked with her, as a nurse. I will always remember Brenda for always bringing me coupons for diapers when my babies were little. So sorry for the family’s loss. Prayers of comfort for her family.
Nancy Forehand
I just learned of Brenda’s passing. I always enjoyed working with Brenda on the night shift at Chowan. She was a kind soul , always sharing her candy & newspapers with me. I remember her loving her bunnies. I am so sorry for your loss.