Faye Ballance Foster, 57, of Hatteras died on Wednesday, July 8, 2015 at Sentara Virginia Beach General Hospital. Born in Memphis, TN, she was the daughter of the late Lester Bascom Ballance and Emilia Ann O’Buch Ballance. Faye began battling Hodgkin’s lymphoma in 1999. She never gave up on God, and by His grace she beat Hodgkin’s lymphoma, but would succumb to Acute Myeloid Leukemia. Faye loved life, her community, her family and left an impact on everyone she met.
Faye is survived by her high school sweetheart and husband of 35 years, Desmond “Buddy” Roderic Foster, Jr.; a daughter, Krystal Foster of Hatteras; a son, Marshall Foster and wife, Ashleigh of Hatteras; and a brother, Victor Ballance.
A funeral service will be held at Hatteras United Methodist Church on Saturday, July 11, 2015 at 2:00pm with the Rev. Ken Davenport officiating. Burial will take place at the Foster family cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Hatteras United Methodist Church, PO Box 310, Hatteras, NC 27943 or the American Cancer Society, PO Box 22718, Oklahoma City, OK 73123.
Twiford Funeral Home, Manteo is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences may be expressed at www.twifordfh.com.
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Robertgaskins
So sorry loving woman will be missed by all who knew her
Mikki Rollinson Childers
So sorry to hear about the passing of Faye. My thoughts and prayers are with you all~
Ollie and RAY
Our Prayers are with the family.
DONNA & ROBERT PENFIELD
GOD truly received a angel, May GOD give the family comfort and peace at this time, your in my thoughts & prayers~~~~
Reid mason
So so sorry for your loss , I have memories of Faye and Buddy when we were kids. Prayers for the family God Bless
Carol Paul
Buddy, Marshall and Victor, my heart goes out teveryone in the amily. Faye was beautiful inside and out. Praying for comfort for all!
Carol Paul
ruthie lane
My love and prayers….she was truly a angel on earth as she is now in Heaven….she was truly one of a kind and i will always remember her
Lynn Gray
I am so so sorry. You all are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers.
Jody Stowe
What a circle of love she wove…..
marilyn midgett
my thoughts and prayers are with all of you
raymond austin
faye was one fine person, she always had smiles for us all, her mom,dad and brother are wonderfull people. buddy stood by her all his life, he loved her from day one. she had 2 wonderfull kids, and you can asure yourselfs you will see her again, i feel your buddy ,sis, screwdriver. i love you guys.
Jason Midgett
I am so sorry. Praying that the Presence of God will bring you comfort.
Lillie O'Donnell
Buddy, So very sorry for your loss, Faye’s family are in my thoughts and prayers. Praying for peace and comfort for your family….
God Bless, Lillie and Henry O’Donnell
Dallas Miller
Buddy,, so sorry for your loss. Faye was truly an inspiration to everyone. Lois and I are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Barry Peele Jr.
Sorry for your loss of a very special wife,mother,sister,and friend. Prayers for the family.
DC Cannon
Buddy, Marshall, and Krystal im so sorry for your loss she was such and awesome lady love and prayers sent yalls way.
Stephanie Tenpenny
Faye was such a special woman. I never heard a cross word come from her. She will be missed by so many.
Linda Midgett
So sorry for your loss. Faye was a great person and friend to everyone!. God bless your family and this hard time. In our prayers.
Bertie kay
Buddy so sorry for your loss. May God give you peace n comfort
Eloise Glonek
God be with you all, Faye was a very special person, she touched many hearts and will be missed by all who knew her.
Susan Gray
We are so very sorry. Faye was such a wonderful person, and now our smilng angel. We are thinking of you all.
Susan, Caitlyn, and Caroline
avis tolson butler
Your smile and kindness will be with us forever. Faye I am thankful for all that you have done through all the sickness your smile would brighten our days.
John and Darlene Ochs
May God wrap each one of you in His loving and comforting wings. So sorry for you loss. Indeed she was a treasure!
Teresa (Barnett) hogan
a truly wonderful lady that will be greatly missed! Thoughts and prayers for your family.
Martha J Isleib
Faye was a bright light for all who had the privilege of knowing her. What a blessing she was to Hatteras Island! I am sorry for the pain she had to endure, and for the loss of her for her family. Sending prayers for comfort and peace.
Lorraine H. Burrus
My love & Prayers for each of you. Faye was such a special lady in so many ways and I will always hold her close in my heart. She made an impact on everyone she met and she certainly touched my life in the most inspiring ways. Cherish each other and cherish her memory.
Rauna Fuller
So sorry for your loss. I know this is a sad time for your family. Faye was a special lady!
Sybil Austin Skakle
Please, allow me to add my condolences, even though I am removed from Hatteras Village. I have not vacated my heritage, nor the joy I find in my family ties. My father was first cousin of Faye’s grandmother because Victoria (Puss) Gray, Faye’s great-grandmother, was the sister of Mogiannah Oden Austin, my father’s mother, my grandmother.
My prayers are for the Comforter to come to each of you and to renew your hearts and strengthen your faith as you go through the grief journey. Grief can not be circumvented. Rejoicing in the reward of the departed, Faye, can make it less grievous . I speak from experience. I am 89 and have seen so many depart for Heaven.
Gove bless you with eternal joy,
Love in Him Who Is Our Brother,
Sybil Austin Skakle
Dianne Williams Radeka (former owner of Hatteras Sands Camping and RV Resoty
Buddy and Family, so , so sorry for your loss. I remember Faye from the Methodist Church the years we were there in Hatteras. She was so sweet and welcomed us outsiders with open arms. The memory of her and her kindness will linger with the the other fond memories we have of Hatteras. Our prayers and thoughts to you during this difficult time. Bob and Dianne Radeka (Williams), former owners of Hatteras Sands Camping And RV Resort.
Tom and Georgia Hardee
Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with you all. Faye was so special and God blessed many people through her life, love, and friendship.
David & Gwen Murphy
So very sorry for your loss. Heaven has received a special Angel! Our thoughts & Sympathy are with you.
Jeannie Williams
I only met her a few times but you could see the Lord’s light shinning through her.God bless your family….
Mary Morgan
So sorry for your loss. Faye was a true inspiration and will be missed greatly. May God bless you and your family with comfort and peace
Jeff and Katie Oden
She was a BEAUTIFUL soul and will never be forgotten for her kind words and deeds to us all!! Heartfelt prayers to Buddy and family.
Carol & Billy Kidd
A very special light is gone from Hatteras Island. All of us who knew her as a child through adulthood know what a good hearted and kind person Faye was. Buddy, you and your family will be in our prayers in the coming weeks.
Faye Lewark Daniels
My thoughts are with you and your family at this time; may your memories bring you comfort.
“Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.” ~~ Eskimo Proverb
Shannon Blackley
I grew up across “the slash” from Faye and we went to school and Girl Scouts together. I’m so sorry to hear of her passing and my thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Cecilia Foster
Faye was a special lady always. She will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers for her family.
Mimi Rosell
Faye’s life was a story of dignity, courage and respect. She shared with all her infectious smile and a warm hug. I am blessed to have had her as a part of my life and strive to face life’s obstacles with the courage and dignity she possessed. I wish I could be with you to give a hug and smile as she gave to so many. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Julia
So sorry to hear this. She was the sweetest most kind woman. Saying prayers for your family.
Michael Hedrick
Faye was a very special lady, and would be missed. My prayers are with the family
Clara Scarborough
I am truly sorry for your loss. I never heard or witnessed anything but kindness and friendliness coming from Faye. She leaves you with a wonderful, sweet, legacy. I will pray for your comfort.
Irish W. Peele (Willi)
We’re so sorry ~ Please accept our deepest regrets and most sincere condolences.
Fayesie was like family & we loved her dearly.
Rest in Peace dear friend.
Warm regards,
Willi, Perri & Sheila
Noreen Shafer
So sorry to hear of Faye’s passing. We worked together in Dare County Schools years ago and I will always remember her smile. She was the sweetest person and always upbeat. So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers at this difficult time.
Sara Scarborough
Buddy, Marshall, Victor and Krystal,
I’m very sorry for your loss, I loved Faye, she was always so kind she was a delight to be around, Prayers for you family.
Virginia Tillett, Johnny Tillett and Michel Tillett
Buddy and Family, So sorry for the loss of Faye, such a Beautiful person. I will always remember her kindness toward me during my times at Cape Hatteras School and in the Village. Please know that you all are in my Prayers. May God continue to Bless you during this difficult time
JoEllen Willis
We’re so sorry for your loss. Faye was such an up-beat person who had a way of making each one of us feel special. All of you are in our thoughts today.
Charles and Vivian Gray
Buddy, Krystal and Marshall,
Our love and prayers are with you today. I am glad I had the privilege of calling Faye my friend. She will be missed. May you receive comfort from you sweet memories and from our loving heavenly Father. Wish we could be there today. Hugs..
Bonnie O'Neal Dillard
Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Dave and Robin Wentling
Thinking of you and your family. So sorry. Your in our prayers.
Holly Meekins Williams
Thinking of all of the family at this time of loss. Prayers lifted.
bonnie woodley palomares
FAYE WAS A GOOD FRIEND OF MINE WHILE I LIVE ON HATTERAS ISLAND . SHE ALWAYS HAD SOMETHING NICE TO SAY WHEN I WENT TO SCHOOL TO GET MY GUYS. SHE EXPECIALLY TOOK TO MAKING JONATHAN FEEL LIKE A PERSON AND HE THOUGHT A LOT OF HER. HE IS 27 NOW AND ANDREW IS 28 THEY ARE BOTH MARRIED. I WILL MISS THAT SMILE AND NOW SHE IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL BUDDYS AND FAMILY
Marta Martinez
To the entire Foster and Ballance Family,
Faye is such a beautiful soul and souls live forever in our hearts.
We are so blessed to have known her in this life.
May God grant you peace.
Our thoughts are with you all in this time of separation.
Love,
Luis and Marta Martinez
Lauri edwards
So sorry to hear this. Sorry Buddy you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna Tokazowski
I will remember Faye for her lovely voice, beautiful laughter,bbright eyes and lovely smile. She was always so kind and had the heart of an angel. I admire her inner peace and strength. She was an inspiration to us all. May the peace and love of God comfort your family at this time.
Our thoughts are will you,
Love,
The Tokazowski Family
Helen Midgett Harris
Dear Buddy and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will treasure our school memories and Faye in my heart. Hold onto the good memories, until you meet again and may good hold and comfort you in the palms of his hands.
Leigh Leonard Smith
I remember Faye as a young girl riding the bus to school. She turned into a beautiful lady. Sorry to hear of her passing so young.
Kevin McCabe & Kim Mosher
We have nothing but great memories in regards to Faye, Faye will always hold a special place in our lives and our prayers are with you and family.
Way and dee
Buddy, we are thinking about y’all and and so sorry. She fought so hard . What a great person she was,
Allison Rucker
So sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers to you all!
Clyde and Lisa Stowe
So sorry to hear of Faye’s passing. She was a wonderful person and a good friend. Buddy we appreciate all the help you have given us. Praying for you and the family.
Andrew & Sheri Raynor
“Buddy” & Family,
May the PEACE that passes ALL understanding be yours NOW , and in
days ahead as Holy Spirit comforts and guides you! You ARE in our PRAYERS !!
Andrew & Sheri Raynor
Raynor Ministries
Elizabeth City,N.C.
Doug Price
Heaven has a new angel!
Cindy Wilkins
To all of Faye’s family: We were in Hatteras for the 4th of July weekend and heard at church about her continuing battle with this insidious disease. I will always remember her smiling face and cheerful grin when I would come to school to substitute after I moved to the island in ’98! Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and may she be at peace with God and the rest of HIS angels. Lovingly, Cindy and Ed Wilkins
Roger and Nancy Marsh
We just learned of Faye’s passing. She put up a good fight . Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Roger and Nancy Marsh
Clare Dozier
Dear Buddy and family,
What a blessing it was for me to be a part of caring for Faye. Such a kind and loving person. She will be missed. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Clare
MJ & Carlos Salinas
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Faye kind and loving presence will continue to live thru your two kids. God Bless!
C&MJ
Bill Jolly
So sorry to learn of this Buddy. She fought the good fight. God bless you.
Terry Perrel
It is mid-October, and I just learned of the sad news of Faye’s death. She was funny, goofy, smart and kind. At a low point of in my life more than 30 years ago, she and Buddy” kidnapped” me and took me to Hatteras where over one weekend they healed my spirit with their love, generosity and good laughs. I will never forget that. I will never forget Faye.