Robert Weston McPherson, 69, of Kill Devil Hills, NC passed away Sunday, January 3, 2021, surrounded by his family at home after a courageous battle with cancer.
A native of Elizabeth City, NC, Weston was born on January 23, 1951, he was the son of the late Lorna Hull McPherson and Arthur Alvin McPherson, Sr.. Weston grew up in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints where his family played an active role. He received his Eagle Scout and God in Country awards from the Boy Scouts of America in 1966. Weston graduated from Elizabeth City High School in 1969 before heading out West. He attended both Ricks College in Idaho and the University of Utah in Salt Lake City.
In 1975, he returned East to begin working at McPherson Brothers Auto Supply alongside his father and brother, Alvin. They would expand the business through the 1980’s to include seven stores located around Eastern NC. The business split into two corporations and Weston became the President of McPherson Auto Supply, Inc and served the business until 1994, when he made a career change and went into the brokerage business. Weston spent a brief period with Edward Jones Investments before joining First Citizens Bank. Over the next 8 years, he would continue with the brokerage business and later banking.
Over his life, Weston was an active outdoorsman. He had a love of hunting with friends, family and his son, Clay. He loved to snow ski when he lived in Utah and fishing and looking for sea glass while on the beach. He enjoyed playing a round of golf with friends and taking care of his swimming pools. Weston took pride in caring for his lawn and cutting his grass. He loved to read the newest Mystery or Western novel and later would take his granddaughters to the library looking for the newest book to read. He was a creature of habit. He started his morning with the paper and ended his day with the evening news. He had a way of making you feel important and wanted everyone to have a good time. Weston was a loyal friend to all and to quote a letter from a friend “such a nice guy” and “thank you for how you treated others! I guess it’s a McPherson tradition”.
Sandra Helms McPherson, his wife of 47 years survives him as do his two children, Stephanie McPherson Astley of York, PA and Clay McPherson of Kill Devil Hills, NC.; as well as three grandchildren, Sarah Helms Astley, Betsy McPherson Astley, and Anna Elizabeth McPherson.
Also, surviving are his six siblings, Arthur Alvin McPherson (Peggy) of NC, Gayle Cannon (Tom) of UT, Oliver Lee McPherson (Nancy) of UT, Maryella Miller (Wayne) of UT, Geraldine Weeks (Frank) of NC, and Linda McPherson of UT; as well as countless nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews.
A celebration of Weston’s life will be held at a later date when it is safe for friends and loved ones to gather.
The family would like to express their gratitude to Albemarle and Dare Hospice for their care. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Reelin’ for Research (1852 Banking Street #9333, Greensboro, NC 27408 or online at reelinforresearch.org) or Ducks Unlimited (1 Waterfowl Way, Memphis, TN 38120 or online at ducks.org).
Twiford Funeral Homes, Outer Banks is assisting the family with arrangements. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.TwifordFH.com.
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Allysn Jackson Light
Sandra and family, I am so sorry to read this news of Weston. Sincerest condolences to all of you. Prayers for comfort during this sad time.
Peggy Brickhouse Hussey
Sandra and family, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Weston was always such a kind and friendly person to everyone. Treasure the special memories.
Paul & Gail Umphlett
Sandra & family, our thoughts & prayers are with all of you.
Michael E Albertson
Sandra , please accept my condolences in your loss . My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
Brandi (Ludford) Jordan
Mrs. Sandra, Stephanie and Clay – I’m so very sorry for your loss. Mr. Weston was a sweet man (and patient father) – putting up with a house full of kids and random shenanigans on any given occasion. I know you have the most wonderful memories to carry you through. My prayers are with all of you ♥️
Ruth O'Sullivan
So very sorry for your loss. Rest in Peace Weston- glad i got to know you
Earline Temple Stallings
Sandra & Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Please know I have you and your family in my thoughts & prayers.
Carrie Weber
Stephanie, Clay, and Sandra – I am so sorry. I knew him to be a great man. Thinking of you all.
Tanya Spear
Sandra and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.. Weston was one of the greatest people I know and he was a joy to work with. You all are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Kitty Barnes
So sorry for your loss,you are in my thoughts and prayers
Dick Brockett
To Sandra and family: Extending condolences and thoughts of support and strength after learning that Weston passed. He was always a friendly and personable person throughout high school. Peace.
Mack & Faye Sawyer
Sandra, Stephanie, & Clay,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
Sarah Ream Driggers
Though I never met Weston in person, I feel like I knew him through his daughter, Stephanie. Stephanie has been a friend of mine since we were 12 and, as adults, has become one of my best. Any loss of hers is one that I also feel. Sending lots of love to her and her family during this time. May Weston’s legacy live on through his wonderful children and grandchildren. Prayers and light to you all.
VICKIE HARRIS
Sandra and family! My thoughts and prayers are with you’ll @ this most difficult time!
Chris McCain
Mrs. Sandra, Stephanie, and Clay – I’m so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Frances G Shannonhouse
To all of Weston’s family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. Weston was a friendly classmate and a kind man, and he will be missed.
Jan Reynolds Lewis
Sandra and Family – I am very so sorry for you loss. I enjoyed working with Weston at McPherson Bros. many years ago. He was always very easy going and pleasant. Hold tight to your memories. I will be remembering your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugh & Jeanne McCain
Sandra Stephanie and Clay
Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs. We are so sorry for your loss.
Leland
Oh Sandra, extending condolences to you and your family. I will always remember Weston for his ready
smile and his kindness to me. Love, Leland
Terry Gurganus
I am so sorry to here of Westons passing may God be with each and everyone of you.
Ricky Perrry
Sandra and all of the McPherson family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Ken Bateman
Alvin and the rest of the Mcpherson family, sorry to hear that Weston has passed. May God bless everyone during this difficult time. Cherish the memories.
Ken Bateman
Velma and George Gray
Sandra and Family,
So very sorry to read about Weston. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Phillip & Bonnie Jernigan
Sandra, Stephanie, Clay & family, we are saddened to hear of you loss. May our Heavenly Father bless and comfort you during this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen Spence Jackson
Sandra, Sending my Condolences. Weston was a super nice person. I had a great opportunity with work with him at Edward Jones when I first started. .we were learning it together. He was kind and easy to be around. Sorry for your family’s loss.
Catherine Gardner
Dear Sandra, Children, Siblings and those who loved Weston, my thoughts and special prayers are with each of you. Everyone has their special memories and the love that he had of other people. Hold on to the wonderful memories and it will help you get through this very difficult time.
Fran Bright
Sandra and family,
So very sorry to hear of your loss. Out thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold tight to your wonderful memories!
Fran & Andy Bright
Bev Godwin
Sandra, Stephanie and Clay, I am so sorry to hear about Weston. I’m hoping that you feel surrounded by love during your time of sadness.
Ray and Debbie Bland
Sandra,
So sorry to here of Weston’s passing. He was a good guy and really count myself lucky in knowing him. Know that you are in our prayers.
Wallace & Christa Wood
Alvin & family,
We are sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your entire family. Wallace has know your family for almost his whole life & I myself have know you for a long time.
Diane Carver
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time
Joyce Wilkins
Sandra and family, I only recently found out about Weston’s condition. I am just so, so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family. Weston was a childhood friend and we walked to school together almost every day. He was like a younger brother to me. He was just such a fine, loving person and will be missed by so many.
Love to you all,
Joyce Little Wilkins
Don & Deborah Cherry
Sandra, Stephanie and Clay, – so sorry to hear of your loss. We hope you will find comfort in your precious memories and strength through your faith, family and friends. Thoughts and prayers for all of your family.
Miriam Godwin
Sandra, Stephanie, & Clay,
I am so very sorry about the loss of Weston. You guys are in my thoughts & prayers.
Alb & Red Goodwin
So sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to all of you. Weston was a fun loving man we did enjoy visiting with the family in years gone by. May all the special memories help ease the stress in the up coming days.
Sincerely
Mary Claire Oliver
Sandra and the McPherson family, I was so sorry to hear this sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May you hold the wonderful memories close to your heart.
Christie Sanders
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with the McPherson family.
Lee and Virginia Gregory
Sending love, hugs, and prayers your way! All of us on Archdale Street loved Weston! He will surely be missed!
Sylvia Meads
Sandra & Family: So sorry to hear of your loss. Weston was a wonderful person and always had a kind word and a smile !! Keep the memories that you all shared close to your heart. Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Beth Jennings
To all of Weston’s family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Weston was a happy and kind soul.
To all who loved him, may God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you.
May the wonderful memories with Weston bring you smiles.
With love,
Beth and Danny
Sara Williams
Sandra and family,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I was at First Citizens when Weston was there and found him to be such a nice and thoughtful man and a pleasure to work with. We’ll be keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Hold on to your precious memories.
Sara and Ricky Williams
Connie Ballance
Sandra and Family : I am so sorry to here of Weston’s passing . He was a very special person .
Spent many working hours with you guys .
Grew up at McPhersons with my first real job family . Alvin and Weston were the best bosses . He will be missed . Bless you all in this time of sorrow .
With love,
Connie Ballance
Bernie Blystone
Sandra and family, we were shocked to hear of Weston’s passing. It’s been many years since I last saw him but will always remember his pleasant demeanor and his smile. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will see him on the other side.
Fred and Evelyn Upton
Sandra & family,
On behalf of my family we are very sorry to learn of your loss. Personally, I fondly recall times shared with Weston many years ago. My mother resides in a rehabilitation facility and cannot communicate well but has asked me to extend her deepest sympathy to all. Please accept our prayers and condolences.
Jesse Purkett
Sandra praying for you and your family in the loss of your love one. Jesse Purkett and family
TJ and Joyce James
Sandra I am so sorry to hear about Weston’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ERVIN Bateman
Sandra and family: I am so sorry for your loss .Weston was a really nice and giving person ,praying for all
Judd White
Sandra and Family,
Jane and I were sorry to hear of Weston’s passing. He was one of the good guys!
Our thoughts and prayers with all of you at this time.
Judd & Janie White
Amy Nelson
Sandra and family,
My heartfelt condolences are sent to each of you. I had the pleasure of workikng withWeston many years ago when he started with Edward Jones. He was a delight to be around and always had a kind word and a smile each and every day. May wonderful memories surround you and your family in the days and weeks ahead.
Heather Newbern
Mrs. Weeks and Family,
I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of your brother. I love you guys and you’re in my prayers.
Lee Pickell
My sincere condolences to the McPherson Family….
Marianne Creef
Dear Sandra & family,
I am so very sad to learn of Weston’s passing. I always enjoyed talking to him when I worked at First Union Bank. He was always so kind and seemed to always have a smile on his face.
I know he leaves you all with so many happy memories. My prayer is your memories will sustain you until you are reunited.
Linda Nash Chambers
Family of Weston ,
So very saddened to hear of Weston’s passing! We were in the same Sunday school class in church growing up! He was always kind and had a good sense of humor! Know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in knowing he is with our Heavenly Father and also in the memories that you share! Love to all!
Linda (Nash) and Dale Chambers
Hildamary Pell Scott
To the McPherson family:
So sorry for your loss. God Bless you.
Janet Sawyer
Sandra and kids,I am so sorry for your loss I know it was devastating but knowing he is no longer in pain is a blessing.Weston was a very kind soul always with a smile on his face.I last saw him at Wood’s wedding and Jimmy and I spoke with him for a few minutes and he was his happy,friendly self.Praying for all of you in this time of your loss,much love,Janet.
Margie Hooper
My love and prayers to all of you, Sandra, Clay, Stephanie, Alvin, Gayle, Oliver, Mary, Geri and Linda. I know and understand some of feelings that you are having right now. Trust in the Lord and he will will help you through this painful time.
I love you for now and for always,
Margie
Georgia Baker
Sandra and family, I am so sorry to read of Westons illness and passing. He was always kind and friendly in high school. I’m so glad that i was able to see him at our class reunion. I am keeping yall in prayer for strength and peace. God bless you all. RIP Weston. See you on the other side.
Doug & Mary Pritchard
Our prayers are with you at this time of loss. Weston was special guy. No matter if it was business or pleasure he always had a smile in all the years I knew him. Memories are the blessings one leaves behind for the family when depart this world. God Bless
Susan Gagnon
To Weston‘s Family……I’m so very sorry for what you guys have had to endure. Please know Weston is at peace and hold the good memories close ..he was a good guy.. My heart goes out to each of you.
LOWELL WOOD
R.I.P. old friend
Patsy Robeson
Sandra, I was so sorry to hear about Wes. I think the last time I saw you’ll was in Walmart. Wes was in a shopping mode while you and I stood there and talked. Keep your friends close. There will be a time that you will want to be by yourself. I think I’m still there. Please call if there is anything you need. Or just to talk. When your ready, we’ll get Doris Ann and Shelia and have lunch. Again, I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself. Patsy Robeson
Debbie Brooks Smith
Sandra and Family – have heard about your loosing Weston this last week and to let you know he is so fondly remembered by many. His smile and laugh stand out in my memory as far back as teenage days. A kind and gentle soul gone way too soon. Peace be with you all as you process his loss…. debbie brooks smith
Teresa Underwood
Sandra and Family – Sorry to hear of Weston’s passing. I worked with you guys over 30 years ago but I remember Weston for his kindness and he always had a smile on his face. May the Lord be with you and sustain you and your family at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Teresa Underwood (You knew me as Ownley)
Freda McKinney
So sorry to hear of Weston’s passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Hildamary Pell Scott
To all the McPherson Family:
We are very sorry for your loss. God Bless and Keep you all.
Hildamary Pell Scott and Kevin Scott
Gregory Russell
Sandra and to all the family, I am truly sorry for the loss of Weston. He was once my employer but more than that, he was fun to hang out with and often quite the comedian. God be with you and your family thru these difficult times.
Gregory Russell